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 Let's be honest, you've got problems.  We all do.  And sometimes, they feel like they're never going to end. Like they're woven into the fabric of your life. But here's the thing you need to understand: Your problems? They're likely neither permanent nor pervasive. They're seasonal. Think of it like the weather. Winter doesn't last forever. Neither does a drought. And neither does the storm you're facing right now. See, most of us get caught in the trap of believing our current struggles define us. We think, "This is just how it is." We let the temporary become our reality. But that's a lie. I've seen it time and time again. People get stuck in the "problem loop," believing they're victims of circumstance. They whine, they complain, they blame. They act like a thermometer, not a thermostat. But champions? They understand the seasons. They know that every challenge is an opportunity to grow, to evolve, to become someon...

Hey, Let's get real for a moment. You want to win, right? You want to achieve your goals, reach your potential, and claim your title. But are you actually in the ring, or are you just cheering from the stands? Here's the truth: "You won't get any blows unless you're in the ring nor will you win a title cheering in the stands." It's a simple analogy, but it packs a powerful punch. The Illusion of Safety The stands are comfortable. They're safe. You can watch the action, offer commentary, and feel like you're part of the game without risking anything. But you're not in the game. You're a spectator. The Reality of the Ring The ring is where the action happens. It's where you face challenges, take risks, and learn from your mistakes. It's where you get hit, but it's also where you land your own punches. And it's the only place where you can win a title. I used to be a master of the stands. I'd watch others take risks and ac...

Let's talk about something that can silently sabotage your success: a missing future, or more specifically, a compelling future.  In my book, "Momentum & Mastery," I wrote: "In the absence of a compelling future, you’ll find that when derailments happen, you become life's effect." Think about that for a second. When you don't have a clear, exciting vision of where you're going, you're essentially adrift. You're reacting to life's circumstances instead of creating them. The Derailment Danger Life throws curveballs. Derailments happen. It's inevitable. But how you respond to those derailments makes all the difference. If you have a compelling future, a vision that pulls you forward, those derailments become minor setbacks. You have a north star to guide you back on course. But without that vision? You become life's effect. You're tossed around by every unexpected event, every challenge, every obstacle. I've seen it happe...

Hey there, Let's cut to the chase, shall we? You've got a vision, right? A picture of where you want to be, what you want to achieve. But is your life actually lining up with that vision? If the answer is even a hesitant "maybe," then we've got a problem. And it's a problem most people are too afraid to face. See, here's the thing: your life will only align with your vision when you start purging the irrelevant crap that's clogging up your system. Think of it like this: your vision is a finely tuned engine. But you're trying to run it with cheap, dirty fuel. You've got distractions, time-wasters, energy-drains, and relationships that aren't serving you. And you know what? Most of that stuff? It's irrelevant. It's not moving you closer to your goals. The Ruthless Cut Here's the brutal truth: if it doesn't line up with your goals, cut it. If it doesn't get impacted by your goals, cut it. I know, I know. It sounds harsh....

Stop doing things for your team (or family members) that they can do for themselves. You’re robbing them of their self-esteem just to build your own. It's tempting to step in and "help" when we see others struggling. But over-helping can have unintended consequences. By consistently doing tasks for others that they are capable of handling, you: Undermine their confidence: You send the message that they're not competent. Prevent their growth: They miss out on valuable learning opportunities. Create dependency: They become reliant on you, hindering their independence. True leadership and support involve empowering others to take ownership and develop their skills. Let them face challenges, learn from their mistakes, and build their self-esteem through their own accomplishments. To your Momentum & Mastery, Spencer Photo by J W on Unsplash About Spencer Combs: Spencer Combs is a business leader and author of Momentum and Mastery: The Business Leader's Guid...